SINGER NIYOLA REVEALS THAT SHE WAS MOLESTED GROWING UP

Singer Niyola reveals she was molested growing up...what she said in
an interview on SoundcityDivas show with Pearl, EME 's first lady,
Niyola, revealed she was molested, like many women, while growing
up."I have been molested quite a number of times. Thankfully, I
haven't been raped. I have been molested by both people I never
imagined would molest me...and obviously strangers as well. And it
wasn't once, it wasn't twice. It wasn't three times. But what helped
me was that I started to try to figure out at that time why anybody
would want to do that to me or to any female. I realised it was
cowardice. Alot of things could be done to prevent the situations and
protect yourself. I remember for a very long time, I would never visit
guys. And when I started to live alone when I was in school, you would
never come to my room for any reason. For a very long time I was
paranoid. But I realised that if you share your experience with
people, your fellow women, you'll find that it's not that big a deal
that you can't come out&talk about it because it's not your fault that
someone tried to molest you. Such people should actually be punished
and brought to book."

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